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Sooo I’m hooking up with this guy, I thought we had something going on as in we both liked each other and eventually it would turn into something. But yesterday he was driving me home and told me that he had written his ex an email saying he was still in love with her. I really like him, but should I walk away? If a guy has no problem telling you he is in love with someone else then there is no way that he likes you right? How should I disengage myself from this situation gracefully?

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Answer #1

I was in a situation similar to this for quite a while, it will be easier if you break it off now rather than waiting, because when he drops you like a rock it hurts like hell.

Answer #2

Tell them that you wrote your ex the other day telling him that you are still in love with him and say that if he gets over his ex to give you a call and you will concider, but you will probly choose your ex over him. (lying in NOT bad in some cases.)

Answer #3

Words of advice…NEVER hook up with a guy in the hopes of landing a relationship with him, because guys DONT work like that. Sex is sex. It doesnt make a guy fall for you OR commit to you. Hes getting ALL the benefits MOST guys have to be in a relationship to get, so what reason is there to commit when theyre getting what they are after. You dont need to disengage gracefully, just walk away with your head held high. Show him that you are better than to just be someones sex toy!

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