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My boyfriend and I like going to parties with our friends and having a laugh, but it's always a bit awkward when we meet up the next day and have sobered up; especially if we got up to a bit more intimate whilst tipsy. What can I do to make things a little more comfortable for both of us? I really hate the tension there is after a night out. I'm usually quite a reserved person, and am quiet, but when I'm drunk I'm really outspoken, and chat to everyone - stuff I never do whilst sober.
Ha ha. I know, but he gets really concerned about weather I feel comfortable with us, he's always really scared of preasuring me into stuff, so I think he feels a bit like it was his fault if we got up to anything that night. He's so lovely bless him, I just wish he was less insecure. I shouldn't really be complaining! LOL.
hehehe it happens when the stuff goes inside :) never worry just let that openness remain all the time, talk to ur bf and make it easy for u both. you guys are going gr8 y to worry at such thing I am sure your bf would also understand.
The best thing in relationship is clarifying what you guys dnt like or understand !!
I have no clue how to help your BF on this, he should just realize there are many side to a relationship, and should welcome all of your sides. Well unless you are like Jackal and Hyde, that would be bad.
Don't worry as you age this will fade, I was a shy, very mild person when me and my wife meet, but after I applied liquor, you could not get me to shut up.
Yeah, I hope it will fade and get easier. Thank you!
