Should I dump my boyfriend of 1 year?

so im 15 and hes 18 and i met him online and we online dated for like 7 months then he came out here which was all the way across the us and he drove and now he lives in his car (hes only been here for like 4 months btw) and my mom says i should because he has no education but he has a job but still he lives in his car and hes been living with my mom which is awk and shes sick of him and she wants him to go back to newyork (im in cali he drove here lol) and i dont know what to do i mean i do love him and everything but we do fight a lot and stuff like i go on my phone for 5 mins hes like your ignoring me im like wtf playing a game and hes always like lets hang out blahblah and he gets all sad whenever im doing something else so i could go on with him living in his car and not with my family or i could break up with him and send him back to illinois or just do that and have him come back in 2and a half years when im 18.. plz help so confused on what to do :s

Answer #1

Doesn’t sound like a very healthy relationship to me, but do what you want to do… There’s much better guys out there than that :/

Answer #2

That solely depends on you. In all honesty I think at 15 you are a bit young to be living with your boyfriend, even though he’s living with both you and your mom. So basically you have two options, as you have stated, break up with him or stay with him while staying with him may entitle that he moves back to New York until you turn 18. What do you feel? Look inside yourself, what do you feel about him? Do you see a potential future with him? What sort of connection do you have with him, do you love him? Do you see him as a life partner? If you do see a future with him, then you might stay with him but ask him to move out. If that is the case, discuss with him about his living situation, you can ask him to find a place nearby, I don’t see why he shouldn’t since he has a job. I definitely do not think you should leave your mother, leave home to live in a car with your boyfriend. I just don’t believe at 15, people are mature enough. All in all the choice is yours and it all depends on how you feel.

Answer #3

that helped so much… thank you <3

Answer #4

Personally, I think if you really love him, you’ll tell him to go home and get a better life. No one that young should be forced to live in their car and give up their future for someone when chances are you guys won’t last anyway. It’ll hurt like heck but it’s better for both of you, especially him. And make sure you explain the situation and let him know how you feel so he doesn’t take it the wrong way

Answer #5

Dump!

Answer #6

Kerf.

Answer #7

Depends on I you love him or not

Answer #8

why and maybee boyz tend to lose intrest even on the best peopld

Answer #9

Dosent matter how long you have with him. If you dont feel comfortable or you think hes mis treating you then you guys should take time apart and you will then have time to think of what you want :)

Answer #10

No the reason why you too argue is because your not use to seeing him all the time , and you shouldnt dump him just because off your education , im a girl the same age as you ive go to sixth from and ive got a relationship and i’m working , it hard to make a relationship but if you love him then you will stay with him but if you dont then dont force yourself to love someone when you cant it your choice and dont let people people pressure you into making a choice you could make the wrong one .

Answer #11

If you have to ask, you should dump him.

Answer #12

Dump him you deserve better!

Answer #13

It sounds like he’s doing a lot for you, at least in his own mind. Perhaps he just wants to know what you’re thinking and how you’re feeling and he gets a little jealous when you invest a little time in other things that dont let him into that information. I think love is not to be sacrificed for a quicker result in obtaining some goal set. There are countless ways of reaching the same outcome. Ask him how he feels about your relationship and if he feels like he is doing a good thing. Don’t blindside him with a break-up as that sort of thing will always end in heartbreak.

Answer #14

nada unless u dont love him but I bet you do

Answer #15

Your both are still very young, to understand the meaning of love, so i suggest you both go your seperate ways, until you both are mature and ready to handle life and the relationship. Then, when that time comes, that’s when you both should come together once again, though with a mature and understanding of one another.

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