Drinks with the ' Engaged Ex'

Hey Hey,

Thanks for clicking on my question! :)

My ex and I broke up last year in January. We went out for about 4 years. We still saw each other throughout the year; I made sure she was ok etc even though we were not going out. I just helped her out whenever needed etc. I mean deep down I really know she’s a good gal.

Anyways, time moves quickly and she moved on. Well she has been engaged twice within one year! I mean, I am happy as long as she is happy whatever the happiness she has. As long as she is safe and happy. Visted her a couple of times, saw the engagement ring on her finger, didn’t make me feel the best but I tried to ignore it as much as I could

Anyways…getting to the point, she would like to catch up with me for drinks. I am happy to, but I told her that I didn’t want to drink as temptation might lead to something else She is quite certain it will not. But I said, maybe not drinks - perhaps a movie or a coffee.

She sort of got annoyed at that and asked why I didn’t want to go out for drinks with her. The thing is I do not want to reminess about old times, while drinking with her, cause it plays with me and my emotions. I still think about her everyday and what we could of had. She said, no matter what happens with us she would always value our friendship for life.

I really appreciate that, but I do find it hard cause I still have ‘strong’ feelings for her. Ahh!

What do I do? Do I go? Don’t go? Maybe just tell her striaght up?

She even offered to hook me up with one of her mates. Her mate is a nice girl but I feel uncomfortable with that. I can find my own chickydees

Any info, advice, suggestions is greatly appreciated.

Thanks again.

Regards, Mike.