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Dont want to do it. He's making me feel guilty about it, too.

My boyfriend wants to try the back door, but I dont. I resent him? Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and he’s been wanting to try anal since we started dating. He did it with his last girlfriend and he said she had no problems with it. But I don’t not want to do this at all. I’m afraid it might cause health problems down the line. My boyfriend does not understand that, he’s pissed at me because he thinks that I think he does not care about my health. We had a fight over it yesterday and he’s seriously starting to pissed me off. I am ready to breakup over this… and I’m not joking. Why do men think they can tell you something is safe when they’ve never tried? I don’t want to be wearing diapers at the age of 35 just because of anal sex. I fell like once we’ve done it, thats all he’s going to want to do. I so pissed at him right now. I was ready to try it, but the more I think about the future the more I resent my boyfriend. Should I just try it once(I’m sure I’m going to hate it) and then don’t do it anymore? perhaps if he’s still pushy I can just tell him it’s over.

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Answer #1

Get a broom stick.. tell him bend.. if he says no.. then ask why should you.. IT is NOT Safe.. I will never ask my girlfriend to do the back door Thing.. Thats not what it was made for..

Answer #2

He shudnt make you feel like crap just because you don’t want to try it I mean its your body and you decide whether or not you want to try it or not but you shudnt b afraid about it because you shudd always try new things but its all up tew what your comfy with.

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