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Ok so im still finding it very difficult to make new friends and I havent gone out with people my age in a while now , Im going to flip alone and not going out !! dont know what im going to do !! the few people that didnt turn against me keep making excuses and avoid meeting me ...
Dear ac92, You stated you had a hard time making friends in your other schools as well and you were afraid to go out. Yes, I think that you may want to talk with your parents about getting you some counselling. Some times a little boost to your self-esteem is all that's needed to give you the confidence to be yourself and make friends. A counsellor can really help in this area. You need to ask yourself this question, is it really true that these are turning against you or does it just feel that way because of your lack of self-esteem. If you answered no they aren't really it's just me, I may be over sensitive about certain things. For example just because some one says they have other plans doesn't mean they don't like you...perhaps they really do and you should ask again at a later date. If you said yes they really don't want to spend time with me and they have all said this to me then it's time for some self evaluation. What about you do they not like? Are you too forward, not forward enough and appear to be self-conscious? We all have things we need to work on and a counsellor will be honest and straight forward with you. Sue...good luck
If I were you I would just talk to people and be fun! Show them that you are a cool person. Tell them something cool about yourself, show them that you have a sense of humor, and just be friendly. I will be your friend too! Just do what I said, and be yourself.
Hope I helped you out. Good Luck.
well...I never had that problem...because I never went to a diffrent school...im sure all you need to do is become more outgoing and confident...I'll be your friend k? any time you want to talk...im here
Dued you can't give up now wait the time will come and don't freak out about the picture
BE STRONG!!!
