does it mean im immature?

why do sum gurls like dudes that are older then the? because I asked out sum girl and she said kuz im too yung and that time she was in 9th grade and I was in 7th.. she said I was cute but I was too small does that mean she thinks im immature? I mean yeah I say stupid stuff sumtimes but does it mean im immature!?

Answer #1

it dont mean your immature. It just mean you gotta work on your game some more (lmao). Barly anyone date peoples younger then them -.-

Answer #2

No its just that most girls dont like to date younger guys, most of us go for older guys, Theres no particular reason its just kinda how it works, Like personally I can totally be into a guy and if I find out he’s younger its just a turn off, So I sugesst going for a girl your age or younger. However since your in seventh grade I’d just suggest someone your age.

Answer #3

girls like older guys , not younger guys. that wouldve looked bad on her side if she dated you. grade 7’s ARE immature lol sorry to say but your still a kid.

Answer #4

it have to do with your age group also… if am 18 and your 15 16 I wouldnt date you but if am say 25 and your 20 yes ill date you..

Answer #5

Girls tend to mature faster than boys, so if you’re in 7th grade, there aren’t many 9th grade girls who will have the same interests you do.

Most girls want a guy their age or older, but once they reach adulthood, the rule doesn’t really apply anymore.

Answer #6

some girls (most unless they are cougars) like to date guys older than them (I do) so they play the “your too small/young card.” No your not immature but then again, I don’t know you so I can’t really answer that.

Answer #7

I only date older guys because they are more mature have undertsnading and experience, while as for a younger guy,,, ( under 18>> althou I dont know you,, I would say you know he’s immature, your age etc… ) so it doesnt have to do with only been imature,,it have to do with experience, etc

Answer #8

Not necessarily… society has funny rules that say a girl should be with a guy who’s their age or older (this doesnt usually go away), a guy who is taller, etc etc… it has nothing to do with you per se… also she’s started high school, kids are not nice, they’d probably tease her… I wouldnt take this personally… it doesnt say much about who you are… just the type of society that leads to girls making certain decisions…

Answer #9

I agree with ray18, your still young. If you want to ask out someone, ask someone in your grade. And girls dont necissarily like older guys they just like mature ones, at least I do

Answer #10

in the teenage years a lot of girls qare looking for older guys mainly because theyll be legally over 18 have a car they can rive them around with by ciggarettes and alcohol, ect and maybe get them into clubs/pubs and a lot of girls like these things and are trying to grow up to fast

Answer #11

I dont like to go out wit gurlz yunger den me kuz there immature to me I know I kinda iam but everyone gotz a kid in them, and I like older gurls for same reason girls like older guys, more expericned and they can go to your house and can do lots of stuff yunger gurls cant do..

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