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Ok. So my boyfriend im pretty sure wants to break up soon. I don't know why, weve been good the past few weeks but now hes all distant and not wanting to be around me. So what I want to know is, should I invite him over so we can just chill and maybey talk when hes away from school and his friends? (hes a senior; football player. His friends=his life) or should I do what hes doing and give him his space and not care so much?
Hm... Then set some standards with him? Like if he wants to go out with his buddies then he has to take you with him once in awile.. And that if he is going to another woman's house he is not allowed alchohol, Etc. etc. Or you will break up with him. If he valued you at all then he would keep your decisions in mind while he did things. If he just wanted you to begin with for say.. Sex or something and you wouldn't give it up or he changed his mind. He therefore would say something like "Fine break up with me then" Or something retarded and hurtful... Try it maybe?
see, the thing is that hes still all buddy buddy with all his meat head friends, they all still go out drinking together, like last week they went to some girl tiffany's house, im like who the fu8k is that? and get totally sh8t faced. I know its probably obvious hes pretty much breaking up with me with out telling me, but I just need some ideas on anything I can to do keep him not, oh I don't know, getting passed out hammered on some girls rug.
Hes young yet, and if things arent working out, its not you, its him. Hes not ready to be tied down yet, and you should respect that. Why would you want to keep someone who is showing you that he doesnt want to be with you? Wouldnt you want to be with someone who will return the same feelings? I think you are fighting a lost cause, because you cant make someone stay that doesnt want to.
Well... He could either want his space or want to break up.. But maybe something happened to him or in his family recently and he is putting up an act for his friends so they dont worry but since you two are "Closer" Mentally he is just letting you know he needs some time? That is my idea on this matter.
ok. well now the only question is how do I do it, break up with him. any ideas? I mean I like him and itll be hard but if he doesnt want me then im not being fair.
