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Does he not want me??

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. The last 2 1/2 we have been living together. In the beginning we made love at least four times a week. Now it's like once every two weeks or even longer.

I try to initiate sex several times during the week but he usually always shoots me down with some lame excuse. One evening after being turned down I noticed that he was masterbating in the shower. So I have watched him shower for several weeks now and he masterbates every time he showers.

Why would he turn me down with the excuse he's not in the mood but yet get off in the shower?? Does all men masterbate in the shower?? I'm starting to think I don't turn him on..

He also frequents online sex sites after after using the excuse that he's not in the mood..