Does he love me?

I’m going to be 19 in september, and I’ve been dating my boyfriend (who just turned 21) on and off for a year and about 3-4 months now. My boyfriend was a huge player before he started dating me, and has had a lot of difficulties with hiding things from me, and not telling me the truth.

When we first started dating one of the “friends” he had flings with and flirted with did not like that he was giving up thos things with her to be with me, and told him he couldn’t talk and see me, and he went along with it till she found out he was still with me. Which led to me giving the ultimatum “her or me.” he did choose me, but ever since shes been back in my life, and his over, and over, and now finely hes said “I’m not dropping her anymore shes my friend and shes staying.” which I’ve come to terms with.

But he wont delete the secret myspace account he made to talk to her with, and he wont even tell her hes still seeing me. He says shes going threw a lot of crap and that all of that will just cause drama, and that he will tell her eventually, just not now. But the fact that hes not deleting it and not telling her makes me paranoid and jealous, which is causing a lot of fighting and drama in our relationship.

Also another thing that always bothered me. Is my boyfriend never really shows any emotion or gets jealous twords me, but he constantly tells me he loves me. When I tell him that someone hit on me, he asks me what happened, but never seems bothered by it. But when someone was insulting her and doing things he did not like to her, he flirted with her and even went as far as to say shes his and all his. He claims that he wasn’t thinking and that he meant nothing by it, and when I get upset and say I’m just a replacement for her. He tells me that its not true.

I’ve been trying so hard to make this relationship work. I love him so much. Don’t ask me why I still love him. I just do. Please help me. I simply don’t know what to do, or if he really loves me, or not. Any advise would help.