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Does He Hate Me?

I THINK I like a guy.. but I’m not sure if I’m just craving his friendship. He says he hates me.. but he could NEVER give me a reason. And the summer before that, we hung out at camp. Now he still won’t talk to me. But we usually catch each other looking.. even if it’s just short glances. Help??

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Answer #1

OKAY! New information, to anyone that’s listening ? My friends have found out that I have a “crush” on this guy. Not good. One of my friends tried to get her boyfriend to talk to my “crush”. And I got so embarrassed because said boyfriend called to “crush” down the hall, and kept calling him, saying that someone wanted to talk to him. Boyfriend kept looking from me, down the hall, and back. Like THAT doesn’t make it obvious. AND that same friend and another tried to send a candy gram to “crush” for Christmas. I told them not to, and did everything to thwart them, which I’m now regretting :( Now, the same friend from both events said that, when another friend and I went for a walk through the school, “crush” looked up again (which he had a tendency to do.. and look at our group) and didn’t see me. “Crush” started looking around, and when myself and my friend walked around the corner.. he looked away, and acted like he was paying attention to his group… So.. what do you think?

Answer #2

Forgive me if I’m mistaken, but you also wouldn’t have a “crush” on a GUY. :) Or would you… :O lmao I’m debating saying something to him. But he’s NEVER alone, except between classes, and I don’t have time, or I don’t see him then. It’s sooo frustrating!

Answer #3

I still dont think hes worth it… usualy one fights people who are like this. were I in you position, id have kiked his a$$ several time by now!

Answer #4

Ha. But at least you talk to her… I NEVER talk to him… :(

Answer #5

I, personaly, wouldnt waste my time with this jerk. if he says he hates you- so be it, his loss. if you realy like this guy, corrner him and talk to him- one on one. people usualy say stuff like “I hate you” around friend to sound cool, but wether they mean it or not… well that you can only discover from a one on one talk.

Answer #6

Hm.. see, but I’m like you in that situation. I don’t think I have the guts… :S :P

Answer #7

lmao, well, like you always tell me, just do it!

Answer #8

:) Your mom is very smart. She, and you, have a point.

Answer #9

my mom told m something 10 years ago that I live by now . ..

if he is a one in a million guy then there are a million more out there that are just like him

Answer #10

Also, to stephanief987, we got along fine the summer before last. We ‘clicked’ I guess. And we had a ton of fun… :S Now it’s just… ?

Answer #11

I know. I’ve tried to ignore him.. But I.. don’t know. I just really want him to like me… and I’ve never cared before if someone didn’t like me.. :S

Yeah, I guess the glances don’t mean much.. but there are other places to look.. PLENTY of places to look… :l you know, other than where I am… :S

Answer #12

He said he hates you? Wow, that’s harsh. Hate is strong word so I highly doubt he hates you, but maybe he dislikes you for some reason. Some people just don’t ‘click’ with certain people and that might be why he couldn’t give a reason. Just because he was glancing at you, doesn’t really mean anything. I glance at people all of the time whether I have interest in them or I don’t, it’s just something that happens. got to look somewhere.

Answer #13

I agree . .. I would even mess with him anymore

Answer #14

Ergh I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone who told me that he hated me! O_o

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