Do you think this is true?

that you dont really know what love is, till it smacks you in the face and says goodbye?

if someone is scared to let people in again, cause they are scared to get hurt again, what should they do?

when they know that they cant love again, unless they take the risk of getting hurt.

cause you cant be a rock, and love people, it just doesnt work.

Answer #1

I know exactly where youre coming from… I was with a guy for 2 years and he cheated on me constantly but I loved him to death so I didnt want to believe it and kept with him. as soon as I got out of the relationship, I made a promise to myself that I was never going to let another guy get that close to me so I wouldnt get hurt like that again. A year later I started dating another guy, he was a complete 180 of the first one. He loved me with all of his heart, I loved him too but no matter how hard I tried I just couldnt let him all the way in. After 2 1/2 years we finally broke up, and I realized how much I truelly love him and I just wish I could have known then what I know now. My best advice to you, is to let people in your life, dont be scared of getting hurt. When you dont let people in especially someone that wants to love you, youre only hurting yourself

Answer #2

sounds like you were hurt pretty bad

Love comes at a price - but often the rewards of love are worth the potential pain it may bring.

Take time to heal your heart - eventually you will heal and the lessons you have learned will make you stronger and better able to see love when it comes lurking again. Don’t be afraid to make the leap when it comes!

Just remember that famous saying: Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all!

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