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I really need some advice…well me and me dude has been together for 51/2 years and back in 05 we took a break and I met someone else …I wasn’t even interested at first but the more he said he liked me and he was real cute …I gave in and we dated for about 31/2 months until we did stuff and I started getting feelings for this boy…well long story short me ,my current man now and my ex lets say stop talking on sum bad levels…n its been 2 years.. And he contacted me over the computer and we started talking as friends but then he started bringing things up from the past …like I never forgot about you and just lil things about are relationship back in the day …n it started bringing back some old feelings and I no I don’t want to be with him but I do want to see him 1 last time …I think I need some good closer…the only thing is ,is I don’t think my current boyfriend would understand and wouldn’t agree 2 me seeing him…which I totally respect …but I only want it to be a one time thing…he would never have 2 no …just so I can get this off my chest…and I just don’t no what to do I need sum advice…help

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Answer #1

The word is closure, and no you dont need it. Not after 2 years. Give yourself some closure by using the “I refuse to think about it anymore” method. If you wait for someone to offer you closure you are giving them a method by which they can continue to torment you or it provides a foolproof method of tormenting yourself.

Stay true to your current boyfriend, and above all, stay true to yourself!

Answer #2

well its not about getting closer sweety , its about what you want make up your mind you say you dont want to be with him but you want to see him? and I dont think its good idea to c him, b because remember what goes around comes around ,just be clear and tell your b/f about what you r going thro about the confusion that is happenin to u, and trust me if you r looking at someone eles other than your b/f , thats means your b/f isnt enough for u, I hope you understand what im sayin and what is point. hope you work it out

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