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I am a very insecure person. I feel like im not good enough to be with the person im with cause I am so insecure. He is great and I dont think im pretty enough for me…could you write me and tell me what you think to maybe boost my confidence =)

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Answer #1

All I can tell you is that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. It isn’t right to put your insecrities on other people. I think that maybe you should do a little bit of soul searching instead of relying on other people. You seem to want other people to reassure you, when really to become more secure you have to believe in yourself. Just think about it. It’s logical really, love yourself and other people will inturn love you. I am note she if you insecurity stems from outward appearence or if it comes from within, but please don’t rely on someone else to fix it. You will be disappointed every time. If you think that you are not pretty enough work on that, what do you not like about youself? If you can identify it change it for you. If it is an internal thing stop doing the things that you don’t like. It’s that easy.

Answer #2

Dear des_n_eric2008, If you are so insecure you should not be asking this type of question here…you will get a lot of negative comments. These comments will not be warranted but sometimes people are cruel. I suggest if you don’t think you are good enough for your boyfriend then seek out counselling. Speak with your school counsellor to start. They will head you in the right direction. With this attitude about yourself you will loose your boyfriend quickly and no doubt friends as well. Sue…good luck

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