How can I distant myself more from my boyfriend?

Why would you want to distance yourself if you dont have friends or other activities? Dont you want friends?

Okay I tried to edit the question but it wont seem to let me. But anwyays I need to distant myself from my boyfriend. We went through a REALLY rough time earlier and I have become overly clingy as a result, always feeling insecure and feeling the need to see him. I don’t want ot suffocate him. And I know people will tell me to go out with friends and start a hobby but I have neither.

well make friends haha, but alright lets start by doing more in your days. get your mind distracted by anything. whether its driving, listening to music, exercising, etc. then when you feel the need to call your bf or txt him DONT. do not do it every time you feel you have to. now if he txts you of course txt back. but dont txt or call every time you feel you need to. just do it every couple hrs or once in the morning and at night. but seriously try to make friends if you are still in school. or get a job haha

Lol it’s quite hard to make firends in university for me. Because they’re mostly lectures so we never get to talk, and I do not live on residence either. Also I have no time for a job, my schedule’s really hectic. Today I was trying to control the urge to text him or call him, but I somehow gave myself the excuse to :/

ahh ok well i have the same problem at my college too. haha mostly lectures where you really cant talk to ppl cause if you do you miss something nd i commute so i dont live on campus either haha so i know what your going thru with the friends. but yeah ok job then is out of the question, i liked working and being a full time student haha but thats me haha anyways. um listen to music study more maybe thats not fun haha. but try to not think about him that much. try not to txt him. like ok just have your phone on you but dont use it unless some1 calls u or txts u 1st.

also go for awalk mayb. it says your in canada so i would imagine its getting cold up there since its getting cold down here in the north east of the states. so go for a ride. talk to an old friend mayb. come online browse

:} Thank you:} Really.

your welcome. anything else you need help with i can try just let me no haha

It’s going to be hard, but maybe try being alone. Think about how awesome you are, be a narcissist and love yourself instead of wanting to hang out with him too much, think of another thing that you might like to do… Shopping for example…. Be creative, try new things…..

Why dont you try and find find something else to do that you can put some passion and feeling into as well as your relationship. It could be joining a new club or even just doing something that you enjoy. Hope I help and if I didn’t then good luck =]

well you could get an extra job or a longer one where you have to work longer or make some new friends do community service or tutor people