Answer #1

The first time, maybe. If they’re too big, they will hurt too. All a dildo is is a fake pens. If it ould hurt to put a pens in for a certain situation, it will hurt to put a dildo. Just be sure that you are well lubricated, either with your own juices or with lube. Then make sure that you don’t use anything too big to start. Relax - don’t be nervous. Play with your clit while you do all of this and you should be able to actually enjoy it. Good luck :)

Answer #2

The first time, maybe. If they’re too big, they will hurt too. All a dldo is is a fake pens. If it would hurt to put a pens in for a certain situation, it will hurt to put a dldo. Just be sure that you are well lubricated, either with your own fluids or with lube. Then make sure that you don’t use anything too big to start. Relax - don’t be nervous. Play with your cl*t while you do all of this and you should be able to actually enjoy it. Good luck :)

Answer #3

^^^^ exactly. putting anything in any part of your body will hurt at first, because it is unnatural, and your body has never experienced it yet. like Heaven Stubblefield said, a dildo is a fake penis so chances are if a penis hurts, so will the dildo. be careful about what you with your body so as you dont hurt yourself. relax yourself, and make sure you know what you are doing before you do it. if you chose to use a dildo, make sure that its not dry and that it is lubricated, whether you use your own saliva, lube, or even putting a lubed condom on it. good luck, happy pleasuring!

Answer #4

wow 40 years old and dont know that u just break up with ur man

Answer #5

No, they don’t hurt as long as you use lube, go slow, etc.

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