Did he really love me?

I know this is long but please read I really need help.Ok so I have known this guy for 11 years we met in the fourth grade and became good friends. In the fifth grade we bothed liked each other but never asked each other out.Even his girlfriend told me a few years ago she broke up with him but all he did was talk about me.Well when high school came we were friends but we hardly talked for about two years and I had quit school during that two years. I decided to go back because I wanted to see him and I had realized I loved him. We got really close again and he acted like he really liked me to and then my friend did some mean things to me and I quit again and we lost touch again. Then he dated around and so did I . I met my future husband and when he found out about him he wanted to know everything about him and immediatly hated him. I had called him and talked to him a few times but whenever my husband came around all of a sudden he had to go. I invited him to my wedding and he promised he would come but he didnt show and when I told him I was pregnant he didnt have much to say. We didnt speak while I was pregnant but after I had her I called him to tell him I had the baby and all he said was what you name him and I said I named her Katelyn Grace and then he said he would call me later but he didnt. When my best friend asked him why he wouldnt talk to me he said its just wierd shes married.when he finally started talking to me his girlfriend found out and me and her got into a few times but he stilled called me when she wasnt around then we quit talking again. Then out of the blue he started texting me wanting to know everything about my daughter asking stuff like does she look like her daddy? What does she look like? and then he tried splitting me and my husband up and then started telling me he loved me and he wanted to be with me and stuff and then it came out he said he was only doing that for another guy that wanted me but even after all that like 2 months passed by and he called me one night but I wasnt there my husband had the phone and he said he really needed to talk to me tonight it was important and wanted my husband to bring me the phone so he could call back but he never did. Then when he found out I was getting a divorce he told me I dont have anything against him(my husband) but some people just arent meant to be. He was viewing my myspace like 4 times a week and reading all my blogs and when I got back with my husband I found out he had been texting my husband saying stuff like shell never come back to you she hates you all her blogs are about me she loves me and when he found out I went back to my husband he got so mad at me that he hasnt spoke to me and when he sees me he just has this look on his face I dont know if he hates me or if I broke his heart and didnt know it. Is it possible that he really did love me? and how do I get him to talk to me?