Did he mean it?

Ok in shcool I have this guy friend “A” who I’ve know like for 3 years or less, we get a long with each other and make fun of each other and we insult each other jokingly. We never really thought about liking each other… well I haven’t but I dont know about him… about 6 months ago before I had a boyfriend, my friend “K” who is a guy are close friends with “A” and told me that “A” likes me and I was like no he doesn’t! stop fooling around.

Then “K” told me to ask his bestfriend which I didnt cause I couldnt care less but then “K” started shouting that “A” likes me in science and im not in their class, so I felt sorry for “A”. Then a few weeks later I got a boyfriend who I really really love :]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months and a half, 6 months next week… but everytime I looked sad, down or upset cause stuff had happened to me or between me and my boyfriend. “A” always notices, he sits next to me and kept asking me all the time if im ok or if I want to talk to him about it, and all that kind of jazz, which he shouldn’t be, cause usually he makes some dirty comments, about someone doing this with someone last night to make me laugh xD. But when I dont tell him which is most of the time, he annoys me by poking me in the side, or by messing around saying “I wont stop annoying you until you smile” xD then a few days ago, I was doing my work and reading over it, “A” just said “I love you”, when he first said it I ignored him, to pretend like I didnt hear anything, then he said it to me again seriously which he never have been with this kind of stuff. So I was like “your kidding right??” then he just blurted out to me that he loves me as a friend jokingly, but I dont know tho :l he was kind of like panicking I think… so im not sure if I should take him seriously… and I remember that we were saying stuff and like

A: “I’ll marry you” jokingly

then on Tuesday, we kind of swapped sits and his left handed and im right and we couldnt really work cause theres just not enough room, he keeps hitting me with his elbow then I told him that I feel sorry for whoever the girl is that his going to sleep with some day:

A said “why?” Me “cause you’ll be taking all the space, she could be on the floor for all I know”
“A said “what? you?” Me “WTH? No, I will never sleep with you, if I ever do ill kick you out of the bed straight away” A “That’s why I like it on top”

We had that conversation, and I didnt take any of that seriously cause were never serious about each other, its just the way he told me he loves me thats bothering me, he never been that serious…

My boyfriend and A are good friends, and my boyfriend is really protective over me and would get piss if I told him that A said he loves me cause he would take it seriously… Do you think he meant it?

thnx

Answer #1

Well you never really know, he could mean it, but then he couldn’t. Does he act any different around since “K” told you “A” liked you?

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