developing feelinggs for bestfriends guy..!??

I am really confused right now. I know this may sound really strangee but I really like my best friends boyfriend. me and him have everything in common, and share a lot of the same interestss and think alike and get along really well. There realation ship is all physical, they dont really have anything in common, shes gets extremely jealous if he talks to other girls and everythingg.

so I dont know what to do? I really like him and she doesnt know that I dont want to tell her because she woulld hate me and I love her to death and shes the greatest friend I ever had, but I dont know whyy I have feelings for her boyfriend. I feell really guilty and strange because of it too. helpp meee pleaseee ( besides she doesnt trust him that much because he has a lot of friends that are girls and she feels like she wants to end it)

Answer #1

the person above ^^ is me on my other acount.

Answer #2

I was the same but then they broke up and I hate him. Don’t bother trying until they break up and you make sure it’s ok because otherwise your friendship will be completely wrecked.

Answer #3

Well I’d say just stay being friends with him, you dont wanna lose a friend you really care about thats for sure. And maybe in the near future, if they break up, you’ll be there for him, he realize how great you are and BAM! Oh, and possibly, if you think its right, talk to him bout your feelings and see what he gots to say.

Answer #4

yeahh tonight we started texing and him and her got into a fight, and she kept secretley seeing the other guy she liked while she was with all of us, which I though was really rude. so me and him started texting and he asked forr help with the whole situation and I told him my honest opinion, and I told him about how hard it was for me to get over my ex and stuff and that I would love to find a great guy that I could trust, ,like him. and surprisingly he felt the same way about me and he told me that he wishes tthat he met me before the other girl and that im a lot more chill than she is and stuff. sooo I think things might be going welll, but I still love her as a friend, but I sorta think what she is doing is wrongg, I mean shes sort of two timing him and I feel really bad.

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