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Ok I dont know who to ask but I want you guys opinions
Im talkin to this guy witch im interested in..we have been talkin for about 3 -4 weeks.and we have only hung out 3 times..I want to get to know him..and I wait for him to ask me on date..but he never does..I feel that he expects for the girl to do so..so I always seem to ask him to hang out..I feel foolish though asking him to hang out with me...and for some reason..we only seem to hang out at night..I know he works..during the day..but I feel like he has insecurities with himself..I've ask my firends and they've told me o probably hes hiding something..and to be honest I dont see that he is..and usually when we hang out..he always wears his hoodie..and covers his face..I've ask him why do you seem so closed up?why dont you let someone come in your life..and he said what do you mean ?.and im all like getting to know you seem like your pushing them away..and he was all like I don't know...am I pushing you away..im all like yea you are...if your not interested just tell me..im tired of getting hurt ..and he was all like its not like im not interested its just I want to take things slow ...I dont want things to go fast..and I told him im not saying that I want a relationship right now thats why I ask to you to hang cause I want to get to know you more..and he always seem to start laughin I feel like hes not interested in me..cause he doesnt put the effort to actually try to get to know one another...and evrytime I tell him o I want to see you..he always starts laughing and tells me why is that...what do you guys think?
if you ask him out (only if you really love him) and he says yes then good for you, if he says no then there isnt much you can do about it. I would try to get to know him better first. I used to have a girlfriend like that, but well we broke up :'( good luck :)
well then keep talking to him and then mabye leave it at that. I am going through the same thing at school except I LOVE her so I understand what you are going through. good luck.
I mean I dont love him...im just interested..thats all theres a lil an a point where I cant take it
tell me how it turns out please :)
