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What if my pool buddy's girlfriend is into me?

I have a partner who plays in the pool league with me and his girlfriend wants to halla at me, it’s been on going now for about 2 months now, i’m kind of interested becuse she’s real good people, but it may cause promblems down the line, so when i said (partner) he’s someone on the team not friend.

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Answer #1

I think you know the answer to that one. It might be fun but yes it most probably will cause problems down the line and maybe even hurt a few people on the way. If they are serious, I don’t think he’ll much like the fact you were going for his girlfriend (most men aren’t into open relationships but you can try!).

As for her, maybe she just likes to flirt and get you roused up because it makes her feel sexy. She hasn’t really made it clear what she wants since she’s still with the other guy. Before putting yourself in a situation that would put you on the losing end try to figure out what her game is exactly and if it’s really worth all the effort.

Then again maybe it’s the fantasy of sleeping with another man’s girl that turns you on. Remember fantasy and reality are worlds apart. After all, I’m sure there are other interesting ladies out there that aren’t in such a complicated situation.

Answer #2

If possible ask your pool buddy carefully if he agrees to have a short affair between you and his g/f. That can be a big fun for all your three. But if he does not agree than forget the girl. The girl may also initiate.

Answer #3

Don’t even touch it. Don’t go there. If she’s in a relationship and you want her all you can really do is wait until she’s available. But what does that say about who she is as a person? What makes you think she wouldn’t do the same thing to you? She’s not someone that can commit…

Answer #4

I agree, if she’s seeing some one then dont bother, how would you like it if your girl had a thing for this guy and the guy wanted to her?? you would feel angry right. no mader how hot she might be wait till she’s single.

Answer #5

Dear ron2323, Hmmm…she’s a really good person flirting with you while she is your friends g/f. Sorry but this is a red flag that says even if we did hook up and go out after she drops your friend she will flirt with someone else when with you. Or how about your pool friend is the type who just waits for a guy to pick up on this then he takes him to the ally and wham. The whole situation should be left alone to say the least. You are doomed at every angle if you get involved with her. Sue…good luck

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