So here's the problem. I found out something about my girlfriend and want to break up with her because of it. I found out that she lied to me about her f**kbook account. She previously posted nude and genital pics and videos on her f**kbook profile for the 100 some odd friends she has to see as well as some for the public to see. I confronted her about it once and she claimed that she didn't remember her login, had no interest in that website anymore, and was done with it. Now I found that about 2 weeks ago she uploaded some new pics of her shirtless, one of which she had text to me. She lied to me about it and I can't deal with it anymore. I don't want to be with someone who is going to lie to me, let alone exploit their body like that. So my question to you all is. How would you deal with this situation if it were to happen to you with your girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance, or husband/wife? What would you tell them and how would you tell them? Any advice or suggestions are welcomed. Thank you.
I would be so hurt if my significant other lied to me and exploited their body like that for the entire world to see. Those pictures can end up anywhere and they will circulate the Internet F-O-R-E-V-E-R. It can keep you from getting jobs and lots of other opportunities in life. The main thing is the lying though. That is never okay.
If i were you, I would confront her right away face to face, no text message or phone call BS cuz this is serious. If you think she will try to deny it, print out some proof. I would talk about how hurt I am that she lied to me on more than one occasion and that I wouldn't be able to be with someone that I couldn't trust. I would tell her that she shouldn't have the need to exploit her body like that and that I am super uncomfortable with the situation and explain that those photos will never EVER disappear. Her future kids and even grand kids will probably be able to see them floating around in cyberspace. You could ask her why she does it if you want to understand her motives, but that isn't totally necessary if you're sure you want to break it off. At the same time I would also tell her that it's her life and she can do whatever she wants with her body, it's just not something that I want my significant other to be involved in...
Exactly, I'm kinda afraid to do it though. And I can't do it face to face because she's out of state. I can message her on facebook though but her 7 year old daughter plays with her phone all the time so I'm not sure I want to do that just in case she sees it. But her phone was also dropped in the toilet recently so it's not working properly so idk. I'm not sure how to go about breaking it off with her. Thanks though.
I would tell her to get some morals and learn about self respect...even recomend a phsychatrist or how ever ya spell it...A clinic to get any germs rid and some kinda leash, she is wild by the sound of it and for the sake of public health she may need sectioning if not restrainin...She sounds like fun tho,wots her number ? lol
Exactly what you just said. Go to her. Face to face. Tell her you cannot be with someone who lies to you and you cannot trust. And tell her that uoi cannot be with someone who exploits herself like that and that you want to break up.
It's kinda hard to go to her face to face when she is out of state. I think I will just message her on facebook. I understand that it's serious but the long distance thing makes it hard to confront her face to face.
Ohhhh I see. Then a phone call or a skype call would be good :)
Uh no not giving out her number lol
Uh no not giving out her number lol