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Lately my husband has been calling and texting this other woman and flirting with her and having phone sex with her and they would be calling each other honey etc. I also saw in one of his text messages that he said l love you to and he knows that I know he's been talking to her. They've been talking to each other for over a little over a month. A few weeks ago when I was on my husband's facebook page she got online and try to say to him, so I logged out of his page and got on mine and sent her a message saying "Hello! This is amanda adams (charles's wife). I just wanted to let you know that it was me a minute ago on charles' page." Then she said that she was just trying to say hey and that she was sorry. Then I told her " Oh that's ok, there's nothing wrong with just saying hello, lol." Then right after that she texts my husband and puts words in my mouth by telling him I was asking her all kinds of questions about what her and husband has been talking about and how long they've been talking, etc. But my husband calls me and tells me this and he was snapping my head off for it and I had told him I never asked her any questions and that I was only nice and I told him what I said to her on my page and not his. Then he says that it's a bunch of bulll because she had just told him this and that (was trying to call me a liar). It seemed like he was trying to her side and not mine. But the only reason I said what I said to her was because I didn't want her to think that my husband was ignoring her and that it was me and not him.My husband also brung up the divorce subject by saying that if I didn't have a job by the end of spring that we were getting a divorce. But every time we get into a major argument he brings up the divorce subject, But after he called to chew me out he didn't call me for two days and when he did call me again he said he would let me change his phone number so that she and the other girls wouldn't be calling and texting him anymore. But he never took the time to let me do it and he stills texts and calls them especially that one woman, The day after Thanksgiving I looked at his recent calls and it said that she called him 30 times just recently and he called her 17 times. What do you think I should do, should I say something to her which would start a world war 3 between us, or should I just keep my eyes and ears open and just let sit back let everything take its course?