Okay so there's this one girl who sits at our table at lunch and I don't really like her, but the rest of my friends do...
So she likes to draw and we had this yearbook contest yesterday. So of course she comes to our table finishing up her entry. Yes, I have to admit, it was good. But the only reason she brought it to our table is because she wanted to brag! So she goes all like,"OMG! I spent eight hours on this! I am so going to win!" Seriously? And then she said,"I know I'm turning this in late, but all the teachers like me so yeah." SHUT UP! She constantly does things like this. It always has to be about her, always has to be about what she thinks.
So two questions:
Is this girl really annoying or is it just me?
How can I cope with this person?
Okay one more question:
Am I jealous?
Sorry it's a lot but I really need the help.
You are annoyed for a reason that is unreasonable IMO...So there fore you are wrong, even though I get ya and would proberbly feel the same when your age...BUT...as an adult and coming across such people on numerous occasions...I suspect she is just starved of attention, like a lot of us...Maybe no one at home ever says that she is good so she needs that from you guys and shines on it...maybe its a different thing all together and her art is her real self so its importance means she gets annoying...There are l;oads of possible senarios and all point to these type of people usualy just needing someone to recognise them and for them to feel good from it, a hug would prob go down well...its complicated pscholigical stuff IMO and even if some of us dont need what they do,we should look on them with pity rather than hate, type of thing.
"... Is this girl really annoying or is it just me? ..."
Although it is possible to like these type of people for theer extrovert confidence, bubbly personality, and enthusiasm, I think most people would find at least a little annoying if they had to put up with too much of it.
I imagine nobody really likes an incessant braggart. On the other hand, if someone has worked hard to achieve something to an unexpectedly high standard, it is quite normal for them to feel proud of their accomplishment, and want others to be aware of it.
"... Am I jealous? ..."
No, I don't think so. I think it is just what we tend to refer to as a "clash of personalities".
I agree with most of that. Perhaps one should not go so far as to "ignore them" totally. If someone is attempting to establish a rapport with you, to routinely ignore them completely would, in my opinion, be one of the most extreme forms of rudeness possible.
You're going to meet annoying people in your life a lot... The best thing you can do is ignore them. Don't go starting drama and being rude to her just because she annoys you, you're just going to cause more problems in your life. Ya just gotta deal! :p
Thanks! I never really thought of it that way!