Dad with a attitude

Mea and my dad dont ge along the best but I have changed and gotten better about fighting with him, but this week especially seems like he is trying to hurt me… I know he loves me to an extent and I kow he cares but he isnt doing this to my sister, his faceorite lil girl. I just dont see why im not good enough for him! And dont ccomment if your going to say he doesnt think that blah blah blah you havent seen me and everyone around me knows its true even my sister. Oh and know sit downs thats just not me.

Answer #1

all I’ve got is, you should’nt let his propblems become yours, and live your own life!

Answer #2

Wow, ok. Does your dad have any sensible reason to get mad at you like that or does he do it for no reason? If its really bothering you that much why don’t you tell him that he’s hurting you with his behavior. Unless he’s a drunk, or on drugs or anything like that I’m pretty sure he’d wanna talk to you if you ask him. If you try to talk to him and he still doesn’t respond positively.. then he’s just a really really mean guy [oo] (no offence)

Answer #3

In every fight there are two people. And sometimes it takes both of them to change. A lot of times, one changing will do the trick. Sometimes just you approaching things differently will make his behavior change. Which means either you can wait for him to change, or you can start approaching things differently. It’s up to you. You can either sit here and stay mad at him, and get angry about how unfair things are. Or you can try and objectively look at how you contribute to the fight (forget about what he’s doing wrong, you CANNOT change him) and try different ways of doing it the next time round till you find something that fits.

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