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My friend found out that I am in my bra sometimes around the house when my dads home and she said its kind of weird ? Is this true ? My dads seen me in s bikini so its nothing he hasnt seen :/ advice , I would post a pic but no lol ya can imagine
All I have to say is if seeing a little skin causes you to be stimulated so easily that you need to get out more. Your lack of exposure to nudity has caused you to be hyper-sensitive sexually. Men aren't "wired by nature" to immediately become aroused by the female form. It is our prudish society that cause us to only view nudity in a sexual context. Also, parents have a natural aversion to thinking of their kids sexually. This is one of the reasons it is hard for parents to come to grips with it when their kids are sexually active. The thought of one's offspring being sexual is distasteful due to the same instincts that make us averse to incest.
I am with you on this one and this question is something that women can answer but only we guys know about the reaction and the awkwardness. Our male brains are wired up by nature to respond to the female body shape in a predetermined manner before our rational brain will step in and tell us that it's wrong. Once the rational part of Us tell us that it's a prohibited activity, those milliseconds of thinking had created all kinds of natural reactions and hence the awkward feelings. The awkward feelings are initiated by the conflict of your rational mind feeling she
I've walked around in a bra, i've walked around in my underwear. its no big deal really. Your not flaunting yourself to your dad, your walking around in the privacy of your home in something you are comfortable in. Your friend might not be the type that would do it herself in her home, but that doesn't mean its weird that you do it.
No it just depends on your culture. If you're wearing a sports bra then it's whatever. Even a regular bra is whatever. In Tahiti, a lot of girls and women just wear bras on hot days because it really is no different than a bikini. Does your friend really think that your dad is looking at you in that way?
As far as I'm concerned if you live in the same household you are going to see each other in underwear sometimes. It is only as "weird" as you make it. Anyone who can't view nudity or underwear in a non-sexual context has a lot of hangups.
It may be better if you stop that. It is ok as a kid but not after you start developing. Not that there are any bad thoughts into it, but it probably makes your dad feel awkward. Just like seeing him in speedos would make you feel awkward.
Yeah, this activity should stop. Whether or not your dad says it doesn't bother him, natural biological occurrences happen in males no matter the circumstances. It's just an odd thing to do.
See thats what I mean my bikinis show more of my boobs and hes seen me in one so its nothing new amd idk I guess , msg me if you have any questions
I think this is more of a personal opinion thing. I don't see a problem with it but I also think it's a little awkward.
it just depends on wether or not you care about whether he sees you or not in a bra its completly up to you nobody else
Well if it doesn't bother you, don't worry about it.
...shame and wondering if something is wrong.
Great further expansion on my thoughts!
Thanks guys <3
Thanks guys <3
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