I sometimes crossdress and feel more comfortable when I'm dressed as a girl. my mom helps and tells me she used to dress me up when I was little. No one has known I was a boy when I crossdress even when I see a friend they don't even know who I am I just act like I don't know them but I get nervous because sometimes I'm on the bus and the sit next to me.
Well I'm typically fairly open minded. I'm sure I will catch hell for saying this but I have to be honest.
You are a guy. Were born a guy and will always be a guy. Your only sixteen. Stop it.
Try and act like a man because ultimately your gonna have to be one someday.
Your mom shouldn't be helping you either. When your an adult it's out of her hands.
I know I'm being quite politically incorrect here but don't care.
Just because you "like" it doesn't mean it isn't stupid.
You have many years ahead of you to figure life out and what you are "supposed' to be and I fully understand all the gender struggles some people go through.
Your too young to be doing this yet old enough to stop it.
Try and act like a man first. You don't "have" to give in to every emotion that you feel.
You're obviously struggling with this, that's why you asked the question.
I like girls too. Everything about them including the way they dress. But I don't want to be them, just be with them.
Stop it and start being a man. Girls really like that trust me.
That's my answer.
Okay, first of all I don't think you should care what other people think about you doing this. If it is something that YOU like to do, then what other people think doesn't matter. In the end, you need to do what truly makes you happy at heart. Everyone else's opinion is not necessary. Yes, people are going to be mean and have negative comments to say. But you just have to keep your head up and keep staying strong. It's your life, do what you want and whats best for you. Good luck.
I know, and I'm not a hater of anyone or predjudice in any way. I'm just not going to encourage this for someone so young because it WILL make life difficult for him. He's asking our opinion because he's not completely comfortable with this. I think he should stop it and see how he does.
Well if he's feeling this way at a young age, he will probably still feel this way when he gets older. Things like this aren't always just a "phase". Why should he have to be unhappy just to make people with your views more comfortable? :/
Forgot to add maybe you feel this way now just express yourself. As you get older if you don't like it anymore just stop it. We can give you all the advice ever. in the end you'll make the choice. Best of luck!
Well thanks but I still think he is giving in to his emotions and he's too young to do that. He asked the question because he is struggling with this.
Oops my first reply says "because it makes ME feel comfortable" but I meant that it makes HIM feel comfortable hahaha.
I think he needs to stop it and his mom too. Do you realize what a life changing thing this is for a boy so young?