What do you think, is it creepy or normal?

Agreed with Jaz, speak to your step-dad sooner rather then later… He could just be a very touchy, feeling kind of bloke but if he respects you as his step-daughter he will cease what he is doing if his actions is creeping you out…… I have a step-dad myself and he treats me like his own daughter but at the end of the day, he is still my stepdad and would never come into my bedroom if I’m alone at night and I would never ever dress inappropriately if I’m visiting my mum and him at their place…..There is a kind of respect that needs to be there between step-daughters and step-dads, it’s fine to sit on your dad’s lap now and then but sitting on your step-dad’s lap isn’t alright in my eyes….I have seen some of my friends interact with their step-dads differently to how I would, asking their dad to check if the dress or pants they are wearing is hot and nice and having their step-dads check their rear ends.

tell him how you feel or tell your mom. just resist or say “thats really creepy when you do that you know”. but it all depends on how long hes been your stepdad. mine ust to do that too except then he asked me to sit in his lap. im 14 so i tokd my dad and sterpmom and now i dont have to see him anymore.

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probably hes trying to show a little more affection then normal because hes ur step dad… i dont think ur biological dad would be like that.. hes probly just trying a little too hard to replace ur actual dad but if he does start touching u innapropriatly then u should tell ur mom..

It’s not wierd, he’s just traying to treat you like his own kid. But just tell him “ i don’t like it when you do that”