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Crazy for this girl, I'm bi, what should I say to her?

I’ve fallen madly in love with my best friend who is of the same sex as me. I am Bi sexual and when I came out she confided in me that she thought she was bi as well. I told her I had feelings for her and she claimed that she was straight but if she was bi she would go out with me. And now thay I’ve told her that im “over her” she has been sending me all these mixed signals and im not sure what to do because im still in love with her. A couple of weeks ago we were with a few friends in the woods and she sat on my lap, held my hand and also offered to hook up with me. I turned her down, because I thought she was drunk. Whenever I ask her if she has feelings to me she says she doesnt, but her actions speak the complete opposite. What should I do ?

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Answer #1

I agree with dancing gurn 120. but the chances… she is either in denial and trying to point it out wishing she hadn’t sometimes… or maybe she’s confused. she might wish she were bi and not be. giving you signals based on her own insecurities. like meg in family guy when she felt accepted into that lesbian club. :p Lol. yeah bad example, but it’s still kinda true. anyways good luck and like this girl said, you should face her.

Answer #2

I would say, Ask her straight up. I know what it’s like to be getting mixed signals from myself, as well as other people. Ask her what’s up, and tell her exactly what she is doing, and tell her you need to know the truth because it’s messing with your relationship with her. A girl is either bi-sexual, or not. She can’t be both. Chances are, she knows whether she is, but she is either in denial because she is embarressed or she refuses to see the obvious. Talk to her.

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