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Crazy feeling

I have a girlfriend and we are together for almost 2 years. but still my head are haunted by her ex-boyfriends. maybe I’m just so insecure that I’m not her first. (you already know what I mean). She have been through many experiences about that kind of thing that’s why its bugging me all the time. I love her so much but I dont want to have this feeling forever. I admit it that she’s not my first one but she’s the second one. everytime we are having sex it makes me feel so uncomfortable knowing that she had done it with many guys. does my feelings are normal? Or am I just over reacting? it makes me feel that everytime we are having sex, she will have images of past experiences in her head and remembering the feelings that she had when they done it. do normal boys feel this way?? Or maybe this feeling is abnormal? I really dont know what reason that I should think so that I can stop this crazy feeling. what should I do? I dont want to lose her…

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Answer #1

I don’t know dude, im sure she likes you a lot, right? if she does, then in your situation, the only people that would be on her mind are you and her, thats it.

Answer #2

I think you need to relax. She is obviously still with you, and so she is obviously happy.

I was a virgin until I started dating the man I am with now. He has had 2 previous girlfriends that he has had sex with, and here I come fumbling around STILL confused half the time after 2 years! He hasnt left me. Sex is not the most importnat thing in the relationship. My guess is that she loves you. She wouldnt still be with you if she didnt. I am also going to go out on a limb here and say that she probably likes you better than the other guys and enjoys sex with you.

If you are still insecure then talk to her about it. She’ll understand.

Answer #3

Just let it go. I like what the girl before me said. Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend feels like this as well, and it’s just something that you need to stop thinking about. I dont see images of my past people, so coming from me, I would say she doesn’t. It’s not abnormal, your perfectly fine. These things that your telling me, sound just like him. I dont think you need to worry, I believe she does love you.

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