How do I get my cousin to stop touching me?

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Wen were alone he holds my hand n try tu tuch me sexually n tu set on his. Lap not that I don’t enjoy but isn’t that wrong. I don’t like him or anything

It can be very confusing when you physically enjoy something or even like the attention but overall are not comfortable with what is going on. I know the whole cousin thing tends to be a little controversial in western societies (it is the norm in many cultures), so we wont get into that aspect of it. Bottom line is, if you are not interested in being with someone, they shouldnt be touching you. End of story. It doesnt matter whether he is your cousin or not. What he is doing is wrong. I know it is difficult, because he is part of your family. But you need to say no. And you need to say it loudly. You need to look into his eyes and say no. And listen, if he’s playing mind games with you (e.g. you must like it or you would have said no, why didnt you say no earlier, you’re toying with him/leading him on, etc etc etc,), you need to know that you havent done anything here. Believe me, been in a similar situation and it didnt end well. I thought it was my fault for the longest time. And if he doesnt quit, you need to tell your mother or father.

tell him to stop and he’s freaking you out.. that’s a little weird that hes your cousin though.

Who rated this? It’s not even an answer… Anyway, tell him that you aren’t comfortable with him touching you like that.. You guys are related, so yes, it is wrong.. so just ask him to stop.

There really is no need for any more details. This is not what you want. You must say no and tell him this is not comfortable to you. Avoid being alone with him. Speak with a parent or a trusted adult about what is happening they can make sure that you are safe. Good luck, Sue

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