how can i convince my boyfriend that my mum likes him and he is welcome at my house?

Ya iket him talk to your mom one on one like invite him over And make an exuce to leave but let your momknow so she an talk to him

go shopping with your mum and ask your bf to come over there to pick you two and let them talk , then after that your mom can invite him for lunch/dinner whatever , believe me he won’t be able to say “no” then..:)

thankyou. well he used to feel more comfortable but one time mum walked in on us under the covers(we were just hugging nothing more because it was cold) and now she says we have to have the door open and for some reason that makes my bf thinks my mum doesnt like him

well it’s natural for him to feel that way after that little misunderstanding. But maybe you should show your mom that he can be responsible and maybe let him know that she does like him it’s just that sometimes people might misinterpret things and get the wrong idea about someone or something. i hope this makes sense

Invite him over to dinner, and have your parents there, but make sure it isn’t akward. :) make sure all 3 of you talk, and at the end of the night, maybe your mom could say, thanks for coming? :D

You can meaby have your mom call him or something to let him know that he is invited one day to dinner or something, then, meaby he and she can have a momment together..

Just nag nag nag him until he visits your house and sees for himself XD

Just nag nag nag him until he visits your house and sees for himself XD

Well you ought to be able to just tell him straight forward that your mum actually likes him and that she doesnt care if he’s in the house

i’ve tried but he doesnt believe me

What did you say to him? And why doesn’t he believe you?

invite him and he well see ur mum how she with him if he stuped he well never now that she liks him but if he smat he well anderstand that she loves him

i said that my mum does like him and i dont know why he doesnt believe me

Ergh, I have been having this problem with my dad and boyfriend for nearly 3 years….

Ive had the same problems with my boyfriend , because my parents didnt like him because he use to smoke weed and use to be all into graffiti but then i convinced my parents to give him a chance by getting to know him for who he is now , not from his past mistakes but my boyfriend didnt want to come over because he didnt feel welcome and felt that he had no chance of being accepted to my family but i had convince him to come over by telling that him that if he wants to able to see more often instead of me sneaking out of my house or ditching class then he would have to meet my parents so i can have more freedom when i go out because i was getting really nervous being sneaky so i told him it would mean so much to me if he just meet my parents then he grew balls and came over.

you shouldnt have to convince him, if he loves you he would come around.