DO YOU THINK THAT I SHOULD CONTINUE TO BE WITH A BOY THAT GETS TREATED LIKE A LITTLE KID?

HE HAS TO GET OFF THE PHONE AT 11 HE HAS TO GO TO BED AT 11 AND HIS MOM TAKES HIS PHONE AWAY AT ELEVEN AND ITS NOT EVEN A SCHOOL NIGHT AND SCHOOL IS OVER FOR HIM AND HES 16 YEARS OLD

Answer #1

Well if you really like him, who cares? I don’t see why it matters really, my boyfriend is 18 and he goes to sleep at 10:30. No matter what I do he won’t stay up past his “bed time” so I don’t see how it’s any different :P if it really bothers you then you should ask him to get his parents to give him more freedom, but you can always talk to him during the day if that doesn’t work.

Answer #2

I really dont see what the issue is? Does he behave like a kid? I have to wonder what the real reason behind the break up is. Are you looking for an excuse to break up with him? Because sometimes it’s hard to breakup with someone and we need to feel justified. If you dont feel right about the relationship, it is fine to breakup with him.

Answer #3

Geez… I have to go to bed at 9. It sounds like true love between you… not. You are seriously considering dumping him because he goes to bed at 11pm? That’s low.

Answer #4

Not to start a fight, but I sort of agree…just a little..

Answer #5

hey its not his fault he has a strict mother. yeah its a bit weird that he has a “bed time” on non-school nights but seriously thats not that early. i has a friend that a 15 had to go to bed a 8.30 on school nights. if you want to break up with him do it for a real reason. even if you just don’t want to be with him thats better than because he has to go to bed by 11.

Answer #6

There is no issue that I can see. So his parents care about him..his health…his grades….11 sure isn’t early. Guess this isn’t the love of your life, or this would be an acceptable compromise.

Answer #7

If he’s still living at home, then his mother has the right to lay down any rules she wants. I’m sixteen and not at school anymore. I don’t have a set bedtime, but I go to bed before 11 because staying up later will just make me tired and not be able to function to my full ability the next day at work. If that is the only thing you don’t like about this guy, then you have no problem. I suggest you give this relationship a good thinking over, there must be something else bothering you.

Answer #8

noo hes 16 he shud be treated better im 13 and i dont have 2 do any of that !! i can make my own decisions..dont brake up withhim cos of it its not his fault its his stupid mothers!!

Answer #9

Yah I’m 23 and turn in around 10 to 11 because I have to be up at 6:30 for work the next day. Its called being responsible :P.

Answer #10

hey just because his parents care enough to watch out for the kid doesn’t mean you need to break it off with him. If you want to break up with him give them the real reason not - “your mom makes you go to bed to early”

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