Are they just afraid to commit?

He isnt afraid of anything. He just keeps coming back to you for sex (or whatever you give him sexually). Its when he cant find anyone else, he falls back on you.

always dates you, but dumps you bc they say your not what they want>>Doesnt that say anything to you? Your not what he wants, so why do you keep taking him back? He falls back on you, because YOU LET HIM. Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, and in this situation his words are too. Your only his little doormat, someone he can walk in & out of whenever the mood strikes him. Start standing up for yourself, because you arent anything important to him.

hun I think hes just using you as a rebound when he thinks hes found someone better then you he goes but when it doesnt work out with that other person he cums back to you b/c he scared of being lonley hun there is sumthin that keeps him coming back but sweeitie you dont need a gu that keeps playin an puttin stuff in your head like that find someone who knows your everything an will adore you every second hun you dont need someone like that hus just gunna keep your head thinkin sumthins wrong with you when your perfect just the way you r=]

wow, that actually helped a lot, thats really what I honestly needed to hear. thanks.