Confused...

spend a bit more time with your boyfriend, make things excting…it can get ‘boring’ once you’ve been together for a while and a new ‘thing’ with a new someone could seem exciting or tempting, but be fair to your boyfriend, give him a FAIR chance, maybe its a test?

xxx lots of luck

Usually I wouldnt say to go for it, but under the circumstances with your abusive & controlling boyfriend, its perfectly normal to be attracted to someone sweet.>> he said the only way to regain his trust is if we have sex. that way “he’ll know ill never leave’…I told him to wait and hes cool but he wants it now he gets mad at the littlest things and he has a huge temper… I know he loves me too.. Even though he hit me like 2 times>>Physical abuse is NOT love, and telling you that the ONLY way to regain his trust is by having sex is NOT a good boyfriend. Sex doesnt prove a thing. He sounds VERY immature, and has no respect for you. Someone who loves you should treat you as a person, not an object to be used, and abused by.

Get to know this really “sweet” guy. Who knows what might develop.

Well you should hang out with him and get to know him more if you really like your boyfriend hang out with him. and yes its normal. What do you expect all ugly guys in college. Cute guys need education too. Plus, if your boyfriend sees you with him or find out you talk to him just know him as a study buddy. And also last thing, know more about the boy if you know more about him than your boyfriend its time for a break up… need more help contact me