How cn get my boyfriend to finger me again if he doesnt really want to and thinks its kinda boring? It is bad to want him to do it if he doesnt want to?

I be more concern about him not wanting to? He says is boring? I think he is having some control issues and may be punishing you by withholding pleasuring you.

well… i don’t know… sucking a guy off is rather one sided… just ‘cause he doesn’t get much from it shouldn’t mean much (unless you’re pressuring him to do it 24/7) after all, a relationship is all about give&take… and a girl can’t do all the giving =D

Well, of course it’s boring for him. He doesn’t really get anything out of it besides knowing that he’s making you feel good. Obviously he could care less about pleasuring you. Which is messed up. I agree it is sort of one-sided, whether it’s you “sucking him off” or him fingering you.

-M

YOu could explain to him how much you like it.. and with tht i would think he would want to do it because guys like to please girls so they can act like tough guys haha & act like they know what theyre doing . or ask him what he’d like to do so that its not boring for him .

i’ll finger u if ur boyfriend doesnt want to ;)

Uhm….Wow, just…wow.

ask him

Tell him ya aren’t going to have sex unless he fingers you and explain to him how much you enjoy getting fingered and ask him what he like you to do to him so both of ya can please each other.

all those are great….and there’s a book out there…i think it’s called…’he’s just not that into you’….there’s a chapter that covers this issue.

lol saw that movie it was ausum

Maybe he finds it boring because you might not show how much you like it? Usually guys get turned on when they know they’re pleasing. (Including fingering) :)

Is it actually he finds it boring? Or maybe he doesn’t feel ready. If you are comfortable together, which you should be if you are doing anything sexual, then tell him that you’d enjoy it if he made an effort to touch you. It’s not bad for you to want something, it’s clearly your teenage hormones. However, if he is being selfish and wanting you to do stuff to him with nothing in return, just don’t do anything to him and then i’m sure he’ll feel different about touching you.

That is not how to deal with it. Imagine your boyfriend telling you that there’ll be no sex unless you let him tie you up and whip you.

you have fingers for a reason :-P

she might like that, lol

have going to jail for raping a child.

looks like u all going there :)

Yes it is because then they will finger you by force just so he can get some booty lol..

ya thats a point but its more fun when you get to share it♥ :P

well I think I it may be because you expect too much from him.. I would give you an advice, keep your pussy clean.. Dont make your sex disgusting.. Stop him from watching porn videos.. Just offer him to take bath with you naked.. Thats really pleasing for guys.. And ofcourse after a boy cums once, its not that easy to get ready for sex again so soon..

Simple. Give him lots of blowjobs. He’ll want to then after you do that.

equal it out but personaly i would finger the girl but unless she realy wants to give me a bj its choise ask him or some thing

Maybe he doesn’t know how to do it so his confidence in that department is low and then he doesn’t want to look stupid.. feel him out and make it a little kinky ;)