christmas gift for my wife

Thanks for your question! Christmas puts a lot of guys under pressure (like me too) who have trouble finding the perfect gift for their wife - that special some one who lights up their life, and makes you smile.

There are a few suggestions I have on gift giving for her:

1. Make a note of all the “little things” she’s mentioned that she likes over the last 6-9 months.
2. Make sure that you don’t include stuff she reminded you of last week - or that she first mentioned too recently, else she’ll think you didn’t “try hard enough” on the christmas gift.
3. Using the list you made in step one, cross off anything that doesn’t feel “personal”…eg, if you included any appliances NUKE IT - trust me. Nothing says “I’m a jerk” like a blender or vaccuum cleaner…take my word for it.

You should have a few ideas now on what to go on - if that exercise doesn’t help, the next best thing to do is to simply ask around some other guys for past gifts they’ve had success with…though, and this is HUGELY important if you do so: don’t let word get back to your wife that you asked around for presents / gift ideas.

Last idea - if you still need more help - is to try gifts.com / shopping.yahoo.com (they have a gift finder, I think) or Amazon.com / and use the “recommended” products links to get ideas if your wife has bought stuff there before.

Good luck & happy holidays.