cheating?

well my advice may be wrong so if you don’t like what im sayin don’t take it personal but I always thought that girls and boys could never be friends without one liking the other which in your case it may be true and it may be not be but it also has a lot to do with how long you and the other girl were friends really there is no easy way to solve it because this situation has diff pionts of veiws and everyone feels s diff way about it

Between you looking at it as just a little fun harmless friendship and your girlfriend is tripping over nothing

Your friend looking at it as a long or short term relationship but she’s afraid to tell you she’s in love with you so in her mind your hers but to the world your her friend

And your girlfriend looking at it as another girl slowly but surely taking her place and she thinks even if you didn’t already cheat your liable to it because when your in a fight its a perfect oppertunity to get comfort from another woman

Now the theory:: as women we tend to get a little insecure so not meaning to bash acidburn987 in the ground but most likely she’s not cheating BUT and the only reason she’s actin like this but is because she’s crazy about you and doesn’t want to lose you and sometimes she may feel a bit intimidated because she wonders why are you friends with this girl when everything you need should be righ there in her she’s not trying to cut off your friends but really ask yourself who do you love and more your frind or your girl and you mind as well do it now because it is going to come a day when you have to choose but think about and I wish you the best

I disagree with all of these answers about her being too immature to be in a relationship. She’s probably just worried because you mean a lot to her or she’s afraid to loose you or something. I can even kinda see where she would think it looks like you. Just talk it out, don’t dump her for it unless you can just not convince her that it’s not you. And theres no hope to fix things. No one likes to be accused of something they didn’t even do. So just re-assure her that it’s not. (:

I can see what gennaglessnerr is saying, but if this were a loving, trusting relationship with mature individuals, there would be attempts to sort the situation out, rather than throwing accusations around.

As I’ve said before, I’d be inclined to break it off with her. She sounds like a total drama queen, and if she’s prepared to throw away a relationship for the sake of some attention, let her. The only person she can blame is herself, and maybe it will teach her a valuable lesson.

if she’s THAT paranoid that you’re chating on her, even if you’re not, chances are that she’s cheating ON YOU! sorry bud, but that’s just how it is.

well not trying to take her side oor come up with this graet logic because I can be wrong but really sometimes I do believe that a guy and girl cannot be friends without one bein attrcted to the other or they both secrtetly in loe with each other and according to how lon you’ve been frinds with the girl your girl friend might be intimidated by it… there is so many diff stand points of this situation what is just a simple little harmless friendship to you may be a long term love relationship to you your friend and a oppertunity to cheat in your girlfriends eyes and not meaning to bash acidburn987 but personally as WOMEN we tend o get a bit insecure and I don’t think she’s cheating I just think she’s scared of losing you so ahe’s a bit insecure and protective

I’m accepting your innocent plea on your word, but … You are going to drop her, just do it. You will NEVER be able to convince her because she is wants to stir things up. I do have a question for you to think about. Why were the two of you together in the first place? Anytime there is a failed relationship, it is a chance to grow and find out what you want in a girl. I wish you the best. Stay safe!!! and Good Luck!!

Okay, I kinda analysed the pic, and I don’t really think it’s you; The person in the pic, is thinner (you can see it in the arm, and in the part (bone) below your cheek), And the person in the photo has a very “strong” eyebrow, you can see it very clearly, and your eyebrow is not as “pronaunciated” as his, although jusging by the ear, you 2 have similar ears, plus the guy in the pic seems to have darker skin. This is my oppinion, dunno if I’m right, I could only say it’s you judged by the ear but not even cause u’d need a very strong close up. Hope it helps.

You can’t really tell who is in that picture.If she want to believe that is you in the picture it’s probably because she’s cheating and want to say you did it first. She obviously too immature to be in a relationship.

That picture doesn’t show much - she can’t prove it’s you

It sounds to me like your girlfriend likes to stir the pot…you can do better dear - forget her and find yourself a nicer girl