Changing

people don’t like to be around cheerleaders because they can do cartwheels. People will enjoy being around you if you are friendly, nice, and get involved in activities. joining a club or a sports team can go a long way in helping you to make friends and it will give you opportunities to socialize more. One thing I had to do was just be brave enough to try things you wouldn’t usually do. I tried out fro choir, to my shock made it, and made a whole bunch of friends. I joined a sports team, a bunch of clubs, etc. put yourself out there, and get involved. your appearance you can’t do much about. but I think you will be suprised to find out that your personality really does matter more. People naturally gravitate towards people who are funny and nice rather than mean and annoying. And being blonde is overrated. usually, darker haired women are more attractive ( im blonde, and I think dark hair is gorgeous) also, being easy is overrated. guys like to feel like they won you over. any guy can get an easy girl, but not every guy can win over the girls who arent.

the way to find out who you are is to do things. That sounds really simple and doesnt make sense, but when you find out what you enjoy most, you find out a lot about yourself. Are you a leader? Do you like music? sports? are you shy in large groups? outgoing? answering these questions, and others like them, will make you comfortable in your own skin. leave your comfort zone. do things you don’t think you can do. good luck