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I have a question. But to understand it you must read my, little paragraph. Hopefully, one or two answer atleast. This is very, emotional and hard for me but...here goes: For nine years I've taken karate and piano. About $80-$90 a month. My loving grandparents were nice enough to, pay it for me, and I dont know what I would do without them. Everything has been fine until, they told me I couldnt be with my boyfriend anymore, whom I love. It will be 3 years this, halloween. Well a week before halloween anyway. ^_^ But, I stayed with him. And up until this, last month or two, they said they werent paying for my karate/piano anymore, unless I left him. And I didnt leave him. So I've basically been on my own. I worked all summer and intend on getting a job. I want to show them I can do it. But my mom keeps, bringing it up. Like she keeps asking how im going to pay for it because they arent. And it hurts. I hate it so much when she brings it up. Because it reminds me of the two months my grama ignored me, and its just so hard. I would like support from my mom but She seems to think I cant do it. So to make her happy, I got fed up...and said fine. I would just quit. And I feel really bad. I dont want to quit. I hate giving up things...
Is it a bad thing to, let down my grandparents, for this guy of mine? I really love him, but I still feel guilty because of all the years they took care of my funds and how they paid my way. I dont know what to do. Career/Talents...or love? What do you guys think? Uhg this is depressing.
well your decision wasnt a wise decision, i mean like you love him but what if doesnt love you asmuch, what if he dumps you then you would have no lessons and boy so i advise that you leave him but its your decision
Hmmm thanks. Im not really sure why I love him but I do. More then, ever. And, I think they are doing this because we are, 4th cousins. And it doesnt bother anyone but them.
Your grandparents shouldn't have done that. Explain why you love this boy and ask why they are doing this to you.
