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Cant penetrate my girlfriend

Hi, I am a 16 year old lad, who has never had sex. I dont know what it is but I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months. I am having trouble in actually penetrating her. I have fingerd her several times ut we have both come to the oint when we are in the missionary position, however I seem to try but cannt insert my penis in the hole. After a few minutes I lose my errection and this upsets me and my girlfriend.

Could someone help me or give me some pointer?

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Answer #1

Dude I feel your pain man, I was ready with the condom on the other day but I don’t think I was fully hard and I tried to put it in, complete fail aha I just ended up like poking around her hole with it.

I felt so embarrased..

Answer #2

Well, make sure your aiming in the right place, I know this sounds stupid but me and my boyfriend have been having sex for awhile and he still has a little trouble, umm if shes a virgin too then shes probly extremly tight and that would explain it, if this is the case then try to finger her with as many fingers as you can at once, this should help loosen her up a little, also make shes A) relaxed, and comfortable and B) wet enough down there that it should make it easier to slide it in. Another thing that both of you should be aware of is that, if shes a virgin having sex the first couple times will HURT!!! Please make sure shes aware of this cause if not, it could end really badly. Remember she’s gonna bleed, some girls its a lot, some its very little. I really hope I helped!! :)

Answer #3

Make her get on top and push down. When I first tried to do it it would not go in so I got on top. But, I dont know what to say about the lost of erection (im no boy) lolx. hope this helps

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