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Cant get over him. :(

Ok so today is officially 3 weeks that me and my ex have been single. (we broke up 3 weeks ago.) and all my friends have been telling me that its best for me to move on and to do this forget about him and try to flirt with other guys. But the thing is I cant stop thinking about him!!! And I cant get over him. And when he broke up with me (in a note) he wrote I love you but only as a friend and thats what were gonna be. Best friends. And we are, were both really close. Closer than ever. But today he told me that he would never lie to me and I ask his friend about what we were talking about and I found out that my ex lied to me. And I did trust him but I don’t know if I should still trust him now. And I don’t know what to do as far as moving on. Any advice?

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Answer #1

A women like you who could be a Model should never let a guy GET you over a barrel.

Guys break up with hot girls for a couple reasons.

  1. They like seeing a playmate of the month crawling after them. They feel like Kings seeing you call and cry into the phone answering machine. Texting them endlessly. Pounding on there doors, following them around all day trying to get back.

You are Worth more to their self esteem broke up than together. Wake up This is to aweful for You to go through. Cut him loose Take his power away, If you quit calling and texting then He has no more power. He will probably look you up thinking, hoping, wondering if you OFFed Yourself because he took his love away. Only to see that you are happy for him and yourself getting on with your life without him.

Ooo now that would hurt him.

  1. Maybe he really did decide you are not the girl for Him. It Happens. Since mankind was created, from the very beginings of our cultures, we Still have not found a way to solve that same problem. The Same problem, Here it is:

HOW DO YOU MAKE SOMEONE STAY, WHEN THEY WANT TO LEAVE.

HOW DO YOU MAKE SOMEONE GO, WHEN THEY INTEND TO STAY.

This problem is as rough today as it ever was. Especially when you love that person. Love stinks - they wrote a song about it because it would touch everyone. He will have the same problem some day. He will be fixated on some one who can see he is dog meat.

I am your friend. It hurts me too see you hurt like this. I wish I could make it better.
Sorry

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