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Can me and my boyfriend stay together we have been dating for a month the thing is we hardly talk im too shy I want to talk morebut can the relationship stay together without much contact please help I really like him what should I do?
So, this is the basic foundation of any relationship no matter what. Trust and communication.
First off there has to be some semblance of trust in a relationship. If not then it will never work and one person will always question the other about everything if there is no trust.
Secondly, communication. That can come in all forms. Physical touching. Verbally talking. Being quiet and making little jokes. If you're shy then that is something that is difficult to overcome. It is. I used to be shy now I talk to everyone. I just had to realize that I was missing out in life by being so scared to talk to people.
If you really do want this relationship to work but can't muster the courage to verbally express yourself, maybe you should write him a note or a letter and explain why it is so difficult for you to talk to him. Just make sure he knows it is and has nothing o do with him but because of him you want to be more open and talk to him more you just don't know how to.
And, if you can't seem to figure out a way to talk to him then you really do need to find another way of cumminication with him or the relationship will die off and you two will drift apart.
well a relationhip is about understanding but how you achieve that is all up to you. I have a quiet relationship myself, we dont talk much but thats the good thing about it we make little jokes etc. etc. all in all its alright we understand each other without much talking and now its been 4 months. so I guess you can do it,
talk to your boyfriend you need to kill the shyness and go out there... stop staying in your shell, but if he also likes to be quiet why not enjoy each others company? there are other ways to 'talk' ;)
you seriously need 2 come out of your shell and open up 2 him or his going 2 think that you have lost intrest trust me regardless if you have been hurt in the past you just have 2 trust him
probably not. my boyfriend hasn't called me back in a week and a half and im about to like injure him lol
