Can't decide what to do.. ex boyfriend or current boyfriend?

Please please read the whole thing and try to help out!

In September ‘09, Rylan and I got together and I broke up with him in January ‘10 because he gave off the impression that he didn’t like me anymore and I didn’t want to hold onto someone that didn’t want to be held onto. We’re still good friends and he is always telling me that he should have treated me better and that I deserved more than that. It’s been a month and a half since I broke up with him and I still love him with all my heart and he tells me that he still loves me and never stopped loving me. The thing is, I just got together with my best friend (Eddie) a couple days ago and I kind of like like him. Rylan just came down to my house tonight just to say hi for a couple minutes and I thought that I would be able to handle it, but while we were talking, I realized that I still love him and he’s the one that I honestly want to be with more.. What’s stopping me from making my decision is that Rylan lives four hours away, BUT he comes down to my town a lot for family and friends and he always sees me when he’s down here. He’s such a gentleman and he makes me truly happy. There are no awkward moments between us and I can just be myself around him. I love the way he is and how he makes me feel.. Eddie lives in the same town as me and we’ve been best friends for a while. We see each other nearly every day and I get to kiss and hug him often. His friends are alright, but they’re so immature and get kind of annoying. I want him to be my friend, but I enjoy when we’re together. I like Rylan a whole lot more than I like Eddie. I’m dating Eddie right now, but I want to be with Rylan. I want to see Rylan as often as I see Eddie, but unless he moves back down here, that won’t happen. I just got together with Eddie a couple days ago and I would really come off as a whore if I broke up with him this early into the relationship… I kind of want to stay with him, but I love Rylan…

Help puh-leeez!

Answer #1

First of all, You shouldn’t worry about what your come off as.. You obviously shouldn’t be in a relationship with Eddie because your heart is somewhere else. Break up with him before you hurt him. The longer you stay with Eddie the harder it’ll be. Also try to get back with Rylan if you really want to, but even if you don’t get back with him try to stay single for awhile till your good and ready to date again, you don’t want to hurt anyone cause you weren’t ready. Rebound dating is bad for the other person.

Answer #2

ah girl I know what you’re going through and it sucks! agree with what was said above about dont worry what you come off as. If Eddie is truly one of your best guy fiends and he likes you that much, he should understand that, you like him in all, you just don’t love him as much as you like Rylan. But in the case that after you two would break up, I wouldn’t go straight to Rylan. Let yourself adjust and begin talking to him a little more each time. If you take things slower your relationship may last longer than it did before, because you will really know how much you like each other. let me know how that goes. hope I helped :)

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