When I do have sex or get fingered for the first time, I don't want it to hurt or bleed. So how can I pop it myself? How can I tell if it already has "popped". I already know the correct terms so don't say I don't. please HELP!!! How will I know when it has popped? Does it hurt?
If you really knew what you were talking about, you did a poor job in showing that.
No girl has a "cherry", they have a hymen. If your hymen has been tore, you would have already bled. This may have happened if you play sports, use tampons, or masturbate using toys and/or your fingers.
even if you pop your cherry your self the first time will still hurt bc your vaginal walls are stretching