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Can I move out for my older boyfriend?

I am 15 and i have met a lad that is 23 I want to be with him but my mum and dad do not like the lad I have met because he has been in jail 3 times. I really love him so much. My mum has told me that I’m not allowed to be with him and i don’t know what to do because i really love him and if my parents told me to choose between lee and my parents i would chose Lee, my boyfriend.

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Answer #1

You are waiting fo r one of us to tell you what you want to hear. Keep asking and someone might. BUT NOT ME. Honor your mother if for no other reason than that she is your mother. Gino

Answer #2

thanks for the answer but i really love him and where not having sex because i dont want to till im 16 and hes ok with that but we are due to get married on my 16th birthday. but i cont tell my mum so what do i do now?

Answer #3

This guy is way too old for you. You need to think about your schooling instead of trying to grow up so fast! He can be reported for statutory rape if you and him are engaging in sex..did you know that? You need to find a guy your own age. Adults that get involved with very young girls do so because of their naiveness, and vulnerabilty!! Your parents have every right to feel the way they do. This guy is 8 yrs older than you. What could you both have in common with each other when you are at different stages of your lives? If you were 18, then theres nothing your parents can do, but your just a kid. Start acting like one. These are the most precious years of your life. Enjoy them. If this guy wants you to move out with him, then he is only thinking of himself. He doesnt care about your future, and hes being selfish!

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