came here to help, end up need some as well!

Ask her what she usually does during the weekend or other free-days and try to find a neutral situation how you could meet….then as I wrote you above..

well, c here’s the problem I only c her in class, because being a pre-med student in my senior yr of college i’m extremely busy with medical school applications, the thing is i might c her in the next french that I take but I don’t want to be lingering hope on a relationship more than a friend if there isn’t a chance, but that being said, we both barely get to hang out, because of our schedules, i’m going out on the weekend and maybe if she’s free we’ll go out to the clubs or bars as friends, and then lets c what toll it takes……….thanks from trying though……….both of my moves have solid confirmation now, well atleast confirmation from others who c this as a third party problem………

thanks again

It is simple: in an approprate situation ask her that if she saw a chance of that she and you will have something more than friendship between you 2, once in the future. If she answer a definite “NO”, than do answer that “OK”, and step forward to and other topic. If she says something indefinite than tell her that you feel also indefinite, but then you can start to work on building up an other realationship. Time to time you may check this quenstion again, but not every day or week (!). If you had an answer “yes”..then do not run away…if she started a detailed conversation on this topic than do assure her that you will always respect her “independent nature”. And do that ! :))