So my boyfriends birthday is coming up, and I was planning on getting him these expensive pillows that hes been wanting and a gift card to a spa for a massage, because he's been complaining about his back! I've already purchased the pillows- so $50.00 and then I was going to do the $50.00 to the spa. His birthday is in 2 weeks, and he is just now telling me he wants football tickets! He has no idea I've bought him anything, but I told him they were out of the question, because nosebleeds start at $200.00 a piece! I say to him, "is there anything else you want?" He says, "well i'm out of my fav cologne!!" - $60.00 The question here is, gift card to the spa and be cute and thoughtful, or cologne and be predictable?! I can't afford both, but I don't know which he would want more! I know he would appreciate the spa (he's a massage junkie) but I don't want him to open it and be disappointed because no cologne... help!
Wow, does your boyfriend think you're swimming in money? Actually this reminds me a lot of my own boyfriend, every time his birthday or Christmas comes around, he asks me for expensive gifts every time... But he does spoil me on my birthday and on Christmas so it's not one sided.
Anway, you guys should set up a limit to how much money you can spend on each other. Maybe that would help.
Don't get him those $200 football tickets because that's ridiculous. If I were you I would do the spa because it's unexpected. He can go buy his own cologne. And if he's disappointed, then he's an ungrateful jerk.
Haha, yes, he is always buying me stuff without complaining, so I don't mind! He dropped the football topic after I looked up prices and saw how much. I mean, and Christmas is coming up too, so whichever one I don't get, I can get him then... I just want him to like it now!
Well all i can gather is that he must be a moody selfish bully type or sumin if you are so worried about which prezzie is the best.He can like it or lump it lol he should just be grateful to have ya.
He will love the gifts you get him. And that's a good point, Christmas is right around the corner so you can get him those other things he wants in a few months lol.