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me & my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now I know that doesn't seem like long to some of you but I really love him. I know we need to break up but I love him too much to break up with him this is so hard I really can't take being in a long distance relationship any more it hurts too much.I really don't want to hurt him. How do I break up with my boyfriend?
Ummm have you ever thought that he might be feeling the same way as you do maybe even worse? but instead he still wants to be with you? you have to understand your not the only one whose feeling that way, you have to talk to him through email or yahoo or msn messenger or phone, talk to him about whats the best thing for both of you, so none of you will be thinking she/ he doesnt love me anymore thats why it ended or what it would be like if I never ended it?
If you rele love him you shouldn't give up on him thats part of love, it hurts but it pays at the end, this will buy both of you sometime to focus on your studies, and when you turned 18 who knows what might happen, :] he might have a job then and both of you can travel around the world together without anyone or anything getting in the way this time :]
hope I helped :]] gd luck
Long distance relationships are hard, I know. But, you have a life outside of him, and he has a life outside of you. You also have your whole life ahead of you, and being depressed about the situation is preventing you from enjoying your life. Instead of breaking up and never speaking again, maybe you should just be his friend for now. I'm not sure how old you are, but maybe once you are 18 the two of you will be able to start over if you both feel that you want to try it again. In the meantime, get to know yourself and do the things that make you happy. You are too young and too smart to be upset and crying all the time.
Wow well this is a good question because im inone too that's the same way and I fell like I need to break up with my girlfriend because I really love her and would do anything for her but in your position what I would do is talk to him first and then just tell him how you feel you know and also just explain what it is that you want for the both of yopu guys and try to make it work you know but if that doesn't work im sorry hope this helped
Cause it hurts so much. hes in the uk & I'm in the usa. I won't be able to see him until I'm 18 cause my parents won't let me go until then. I'm sick of missing him,thinking about him 24/7,crying everyday,& being sad all the time. it's ripping my life apart but I love him so much I'm trying to hang on but I just can't take it any more. I'm actually crying now :(
and breaking up will help you stop crying? feelings arent ust discarded that way but if it makes you feel better go ahead, why wait...I mean its not like you love him right? ooops you say you do? oh I thought you were joking because you just said you have to break up. do you think it doesnt hurt him?
Why do you feel as though you can't continue being in your long distance relationship?
Thanks so much! :)