How do I break my habit of being anti-social round people?

My best friend is anti-social, actually. She doesn’t like to talk to anyone that’s not me :) I don’t know that it’s a problem…some people are just shy. But if you really do see it as a problem that you do want to fix, you have to work for it. It sucks, but after you make that first awkward attempt at conversation with a person, it gets easier. Most people are scared to talk to people they don’t know. I’m pretty social, and I still don’t like initiating small talk. There’s plenty of easy ways to be social-the best way is to meet people through your friends, your job and at school. Some people may not want to talk, but there’s always somebody out there who wants to make another friend. You can even start on FunAdvice, by talking to other members on their profiles :) Good luck!

just try making new friends and go up and talk to people:)

Be around alot of people and push yourself to talk to them.

but what subject should i talk to them about ??… :\ thats my problem

Anything, depending on the situation. When I’m at work, I’ll bring up something about work, because we can relate to it. When I’m at school, I complain about an upcoming test or how bored I am :) Better yet, compliment them. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. For example-on the first day of classes I sat next to a girl wearing really cute pink sunglasses. I told her I really liked them, we talked about where she got them and I talked about how much I loved that store, and now I have a friend. Really, you just have to find some kind of icebreaker. From there, it generally just flows naturally. Trust me, the first step is the hardest, but you’ll get better at it.

take a couple of shots of liquor and ull do fine